My to-do list is ever present. On my desk, in my journals, on my phone and in my brain.
Some are HAVE TO’s, some are WANT TO’s and some are things I put on the list every day hoping I get to thing. Things that roll over from yesterday, and the day before, and the day before that. Tasks that may get done if only I had 26 hours a day instead of 24.
I’m deluding myself thinking these things are going to actually get done. I bust my butt to get HAVE TO’s done. Instead of filling the to-do list and giving my anxiety for not completing everything, I’m creating an
Ignore List
The things I don’t need to do and stress me out if they are left undone.
- 10 minute of Yoga Daily. Sounds simple and great. Only 10 minutes right? Yeah since it’s only 10 minutes I wait until the end of the day when all I want is to crawl in bed. I’m counting my office yoga instead.
- Cook lunch. My apartment is a short distance from my office so it’s feasible to cook something for lunch everyday. I don’t plan leftovers or lunches even like I did when I worked farther away. Yet I beat myself up when lunch is the same old microwave egg sandwich or randomness in a bowl. Lunch is lunch and that’s better than being hungry.
- Wear something cute after work. I wear a uniform to work. It makes getting dressed in the morning really easy.
I workout in the afternoon or evening meaning wicking t-shirts and comfy pants. Yet I have a closet and drawers with cute clothes. I beat myself up when I jump out of my skirt and heelswedges and into my Zumba gear.
Tough cookies…I’m going to be sweating in 2 hours, I’ll save the pretty clothes for dates & the weekend. - Clean off my desk. I’m not a slob I promise. But my desk does get a bit messy. I want to be one of those people who straightens their desk before they leave the office each evening…but I’m not. There’s a pile of papers in the corner right now…and a stack of envelopes in my sorter waiting to go out. Yet I know what it all is and where it all is. No need to stress about straightening it. Momma’s not going to ground me for a messy desk, right Momma?
- Get ahead on sermons/grants/meeting planning/etc. I’m a scheduled person. I like to know what’s going on. My blog posts are schedule at least 3 days in advance…usually. Yet work items…not so much. If I had my way it would, but things are thrown at me last minute and I have to roll with the punches. So the time I set aside to get ahead is pushed back to put out fires. At least my messy desk isn’t lit up in flames, right?
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Last Week’s Goals
- Craft time. There are days I can’t believe part of my job is to do crafts. Because I love crafts I often over plan. This week I worked hard and even scaled back a bit to get a good bit done so I don’t have a ton left for the next few days.
- Organize workout schedule. Being sick threw off the schedule a bit but I found the balance of cardio and strength this week and found time for yoga to stretch it all out.
- Big Work Goals. I don’t know how I survived. The grace of God is all I can say because sleeping through half the time I scheduled in the evening left me rushing. I’ve never been more grateful for careful prep and work through the year.
- Party! The groups had fun. I was stressed with all the other things I had going on. The key is not to let my job stress show to the participants and congregation.
- Cooking and, oh cooking. Cooking for others is hard…their tastes are always so different from mine. Yet this week I cooked my heart out and the freezer is almost stocked with my freezer meals.
This Week’s Goals
- Party time, excellent. Our church Harvest Celebration is this Friday so it’s time to celebrate. Oh and lots of work before hand. But the celebration will be worth it.
- Fit in fitness. It’s so easy on the busiest of weeks to skip the fitness. This AM the first workout is done and the others are scheduled in for sanity.
- Strength plan. My strength training consistency has been improving steadily. Now it’s time to create a plan. A regular schedule of exercises and cycle of upper body and lower body exercises is just what I need.
- Snack plan. My meals are back on track with a nice bit of balance. Snacks are another story. Gluten free store bought goodies are trouble and a girl can only have so many vegetables in a day. Snack mix fun will commence this week.
- Read and relax. Or walk and relax, sew and relax, craft and relax or sleep and relax. Note a pattern? Last few weeks have been full of stress. This week requires some relaxation…even if it’s not until Saturday.














You know what they say, “A messy desk is a sign of a busy person.” It not like you have the Inspector General coming and everything has to be GI.